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THE POP CLUB 

 a soft place to land in the messy, meaningful work of parenting.

It’s a purposeful, research-backed path to understand and shift tricky behaviours so you can transform relationships. It's balanced with a community of growth-minded others and held by a Registered Play Therapist where no question is too small, no feeling too big, no child too hard and no parent too ‘messy’ to belong.


Where the hard stuff—the meltdowns, shame spirals, aggression, second-guessing—isn’t met with judgment, but with deep compassion and science-backed support.

I believe that when parents feel safe, seen, and supported, they see things differently and then show up differently.


Not perfectly. Not without struggle.
But with more confidence, clarity, and connection.

This is a community where you can be real.
Where you can grow without guilt.
And where parenting with information and intuition doesn’t mean doing it alone.

Welcome to the POP Club. You’re already enough—and you don’t have to do this alone.

 

If I could show you what those tricky behaviours actually mean AND a way for you to respond that gets to the heart of the matter, without reacting to the heat of it, would you be interested?

Join us for the great behaviour reset kicking off on may 12th!
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Introducing The Parenting On Purpose Club...

The parenting transformation purposefully built to move you away from second-guessing yourself and getting in a pickle about your kids' behaviour to showing up with confidence, clarity and connection *even when* they're screaming at you or grinning whilst they keep doing what you've said 'NO' to...


This is NOT a list of 'quick fixes', there are no scripts of "say this, not that" advice because I know that won't serve in the long-game that is parenting.

This is a space for you, who is ready to own your messy human-ness to transform your relationships with your kids in a way that *feels* as good as it sounds and doesn't depend on the next expert telling you what to say.

If you're the parent of an intense kid(s) aged between 1 & 7, ready to see what truly matters when it comes to helping you and your kids thrive then you're in the right place!

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What is parenting on purpose?

 

Parenting on Purpose is about being the kind of parent you want to be, not just surviving the chaos but actively shaping it.
Parenting on Purpose is a relationship that has no shortcuts.
Tricky behaviours aren't fixed with hacks and tricks, but shifted by meeting needs and understanding what's going on.
It's loving your children for who they are, not what they do.

🙅 Because no script will save the spaghetti from landing on the floor when your child is frustrated.
🙅 There is no formula for fixing the heartache of your kid being rejected at the playground.
🙅 There is no trick to compliance.
🙅 No hack to ending the meltdowns.
🙅 No 1-2-3 to ending sibling squabbles.

A lot like going on a 🐻 hunt. There is no way of going around the difficult, messy bits in parenting.

But there is some good news... You can go through the mud, you can do hard things AND you already have EXACTLY what it takes I'm just here to guide you.

🙋 YOU are what is most important to YOUR child.
🙋 You are who your child needs. All of you; your stories, experiences, quirks and all.

🙋 And yet, with all the big insta accounts giving you the 'say this, not that' prescriptions and seducing you with 'quick fixes, tips, tricks and save-all strategies you're so committed to trying to get it all 'right' that you're even more confused than ever before.

You've been taught not to trust what you feel inside and not question the status quo so you keep looking for 'experts' to tell you what to say and do and following their advice even if it doesn't feel right.


This is a space where we focus on the human BEing not the 'human DOing' or the 'human SAYing' because we know that relationships deserve so much more than trickery.

 

The POP model has been designed to show you that you *really* are enough, and not just that, it will have you believing it too.

Parenting on Purpose happens when we can learn to know and trust that we are both a masterpiece and a work in progress at the same time.

The relationship you have with your kid is the key to their overall well-being. 

🤸It is your relationship with them (not a new, shiny trick) that makes them want to behave well.

🤸It's your relationship that allows you to fully see and understand so that you can meet them where they are at, in the aggression, the yelling, the mess and the meltdowns.

🤸It's your relationship that builds trust and safety and invites your children to depend on your caretaking instead of resisting it.

🤸It's your relationship that creates a playful bond where joy and ease not only weaves it's way through the everyday mundane moments but it also becomes a tool to meet needs and shift tricky behaviours

 

You know this and, yet, there's an elephant in the room...

You're  finding their behaviours so hard and so frustrating that play is the last thing you want to do with them.  

 

Parenting isn’t what you thought it would be and feeling 'ease' and 'joyful' is a bit of a distant dream. 

 

Everywhere you turn, people keep telling you "connection not perfection" in parenting but you have no benchmark for what that actually looks like and you're so worried about stuffin' it up for good. 

🥴 You've read the books.

🥴 You've tried on the scripts.

🥴 You've been on Google and ChatGPT to find the answers.

🥴 You've tried to hack your way to a shortcut.

🥊 You've stared at yourself in the mirror and read the mantras, maybe even given yourself a metaphorical upper cut whilst you're there and vowed to do better tomorrow.

 Aaaaaaaaand it's all taking you further and further away from the stuff that truly matters. It's making you feel less than, not more than good enough and it's got you stuck in your head and out of your heart which has you on a constant knowledge quest.

 

And, alas, you fall into bed in a heap at the end of the day once again replaying where you could have done different things differently and what you could have done instead of yelling and shaming.

If you're anything like the hundreds of members I've supported in this club, I'll bet top dollar:

You bloody love those little people and there is so much that brings you joy but you constantly feel on edge, you feel like you're missing the 'glory days' even though you're right there.

 

Instead of connection, it feels like constant conflict and chaos.

 

It seems like everyone is made of something you don't have, everyone else seems to be finding it easier.

Everyday just feels like a whirlwind of never stopping yet feeling like you've done nothing. You're just stuck in survival mode, going through the motions but finding no space for fun.

There's a battle over everything, the siblings are hurting each other, no one is listening to you, your boundaries are like a creaky gate swinging in the wind and you can't remember the last day you enjoyed. Ouch.

You wish there was a space that you could share your vulnerable stories and be met with nods of the heads and "me too's" delivered alongside trustworthy insights from a Play Therapist that *gets it*

gets it

*

Well guess what... HALLELUJAH. It exists, and it's here!

Through the Parenting on Purpose Club, I am here to help you:

Move from Parenting on Default >>> Parenting on Purpose by following the POP PATH. 

I have got absolutely no interest in telling you what you should be doing and saying.

I'm not here to convince you that this is hard because you haven't got the right script or framework, yet.

I won't be giving you a shortcut, a trick or a hack to better behaviour (from you or them).

What I will do is introduce you to 'The Foundations' to:


1️⃣ REFLECT on who you are and what you bring to parenting that affects how you show up, perhaps without you even realising it yet. Step 1 is a willingness to grow alongside your kids. 

2️⃣KNOW what your kids actually need to thrive and discover what is driving the behaviours that make you cringe (I promise when you know, they make so much sense).

3️⃣RELATE in a way that deepens your connection and makes finding fun easier. 

4️⃣REGULATE - access a toolbox of ways to regulate yourself proactively and in the moment so that lid flippin' isn't your only tool. 

So you can know... 

 

Why.

why you get so frustrated you swear steam is coming out of your ears
why you find yourself yelling and screaming, again
why you just want to hold them by the shoulders and scream "WHHYYYY WOULD YOU DO THAT"

You can't survive on band aid fixes in relationships if you can't understand where the injuries keep coming from. 

What

Yours and your kids behaviours are showing you and then help you to connect them all to their underlying needs, it will allll make so much sense when you get this. This will get you out of obsessing over the details and into confidence and leadership. 

How

to put your relationship first, and to intergrate the language of life (in case you don't know, that language is play), in to your everyday to meet those needs.

And on the other side of this is clarity, confidence and connection.

Introducing The Parenting On Purpose Club...

The parenting transformation strategically built for parents who are ready to move away from parenting on default and towards parenting on purpose.

Parenting on default:

 

😵‍💫 You feel stuck in cycles of frustration and guilt, reacting impulsively to your child’s behaviours

😵‍💫 Tantrums, defiance, and power struggles leave you feeling overwhelmed and unsure of what to do

😵‍💫 Daily routines feel like battles, and you long for moments of joy and connection with your child.

😵‍💫 You’re weighed down by guilt after yelling or reacting in ways you vowed never to.

😵‍💫 Your home feels chaotic, with constant power struggles, meltdowns, and conflict.

😵‍💫 Parenting feels like a never-ending list of challenges, and you’re simply trying to survive the day.

😵‍💫 You feel like no one understands what you’re going through, and that you're the only one finding it so challenging.

Parenting on purpose:

 

😍 You’ll learn to pause, ground yourself, and respond with calm and clarity.

😍 You’ll feel confident in your ability to navigate even the trickiest moments with purpose

😍 You’ll understand the “why” behind your child’s behaviours and know how to meet their needs with with authenticity confidence

😍 You’ll rebuild trust and connection through empathy and play, creating a bond that feels deeply fulfilling for both of you.

😍 You’ll learn how to repair after missteps, modeling accountability and growth for your child—and giving yourself the compassion you deserve.

😍 You’ll create a home environment that feels calmer, more cooperative, and emotionally safe for everyone.

😍 You’ll rediscover the joy of parenting, finding playfulness and connection in everyday moments.

😍 You’ll join a community of like-minded parents who support and encourage you, reminding you that you’re never alone on this journey.

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Come and have a sticky beak at what's waiting for you on the other side of the club doors:

Basecamp

This is the starting point, where we meet you in your favourite arm chair with a brew from your favourite cup and introduce you to the Parenting Foundations. Here I'll show you the things that *actually* matter in parenting, I'll cut to the chase so you can start doing less of the things that don't matter. No awkward scripts, no tips and tricks. 

Once you've been in the basecamp you'll meet the four core pillars:

(REFLECT + KNOW + CONNECT + REGULATE)

Reflect

Understand the stories and experiences that taint the way you see your kids and their behaviours. Learn how to ditch the stories that were never really yours so that you can show up in ways you really want to and silence the thoughts and opinions of everyone else.

Know

Make sense of kids, think of this like a little playbook for understanding what is causing the tricky behaviour. Here's where I make the complicated seem so simple that you can decode even the tricky ones and, no, I'm not going to tell you that they need more 1:1 time.

Connect

Here's where you find ways to get what you both need so that you can respond with playfulness and purpose to deepen connection and strengthen your relationship.

Regulate

This is your ideas of toolbox to help you to regulate so that you can stop flying off the handle, checking out and doom scrolling whilst the kids scream at each other in another room.

This is where you get out of blame, shame and punishment and start to shift how you respond with purpose, intention and playfulness. I'll show you how and why more playfulness is the answer to shifting tricky behaviours and I'll give you a bank of ideas *not prescriptions* for using play to meet the needs behind behaviours.

The POP Club is a digital membership space for $32 per month offering you:

A clear path to deeper relationships:

Understand what really matters when it comes to supporting your intense kids so that you can get out of your head and show up with confidence and purpose.

 

- The POP Framework for REFLECT, KNOW, RELATE and REGULATE. Know how to navigate your own 'stuff' alongside your child's so that you can grow alongside them and connect more deeply.

 
- Questions from the Clubhouse- a private podcast spotlighting member questions every week
- Monthly live Q&A sessions, member hot seats for insights on their struggles
- Masterclasses, workshops and guest hosting for deeper dives on topics impacting you the most

- PLUS  a BONUS 'Behaviour Box' your go-to behaviour encyclopeadia showing you exactly what those behaviours are about and how to shift them

 

Join us before doors close on Monday, 5 May 2025.

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Have we met?

Growing you as a parent, giving children what they actually need to thrive and strengthening your connection to yourself, your community and wider circle is what I’m all about.

I've got no interest in telling you what to say and do, none at all. The age of the outside expert is done.

I won't tell you what to say and do because, whilst what your kids do is kind of interesting, there's so much underneath it that I'm far more interested in.

You are the answer to your family and your kids, I'll show you what I mean.

As a Child and Family Play Therapist, with a background in Psychology I have over a decade of experience working with children and families and my secret sauce is taking theory and neuroscience and turning it into digestible, practical content to show you what matters.

I'd be telling you porkie pies if I said I wasn't utterly obsessed with the impact of early childhood experiences on the development of the brain, they are pivotal! I’d love to share this knowledge with you too.

These early experiences are the foundation on which our child's future is built, we all know without a solid foundation the walls fall down!

And in case you were worried - joining is risk-free!
You're can check out anytime you like, no lock in contracts!
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