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Over 500 parents have transformed their parenting in this space

Come and join us in the Parenting on Purpose Club AKA The POP Club

 

A space to break through and understand the real reasons you’re struggling with your child’s behaviour so that you can reduce them for good

The POP Club is an app-based community for parents of intense children aged 1-7 ready to ditch quick tricks, go deeper than learning quick scripts so that they can focus on what actually matters.

 You will become the parent that is your child’s answer to aggression, anxiety, tricky behaviours, bedtime battles, toileting challenges, sibling squabbles and so much more. 

No more looking for answers from the next expert because when you have a roadmap to change how you see and be with the behaviours, the behaviours you see change. 

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đŸ’„realtalk

 

You’ve tried the tips, the “gentle” scripts, the calm corners, the time-outs, the parenting books are stacked on your nightstand, and yet here you are.
 Still feeling like you’re losing it in the kitchen.
 Still watching your child’s big feelings explode and wondering, “What am I doing wrong?”

 - Still trying to stop siblings fighting, the rude backchat, the aggression, the yelling, the battles and, my gosh, the defiance 👀

 - Still feeling not good enough 😭😭

 - Still feeling like you’re missing something, like you’re less than ‘that mum’ in your group that has the kids who sit and just colour in or chill and do play-doh đŸ€ŻđŸ€Ż

And what that ttat looks like playing out in real life too?

🙃 You might be running yourself ragged trying to “fix” the little flash-points; the bedtime circus, the supermarket standoff, the nappy stand-off, the car-seat wrestle, telling yourself, “If we could just get this thing sorted, everything would be fine.”

🙃 You might be trapped in the daily loop of nagging, bribing, threatening, then feeling guilty — you already know it doesn’t work but in the heat of the moment, you’ve got nothing else to try.

🙃 You might be desperate for calmer days and fewer tears (theirs and yours) but so busy firefighting the behaviour you’ve not had chance to step back and see what’s really going on underneath it all.

It feels so complex and so overwhelming, but here’s what I know
 

You’re not broken.
 You’re not failing.
 You’re just trying to teach your child something you were never taught: how to actually feel and regulate emotions.

You’re likely focusing on WHAT your kids are doing instead of looking at WHY. 

POP Club exists because this is the work nobody tells you about.

 

This is the work that you cannot hack your way out of. 

This is the work that has no ‘save all script’ that you can use in the next meltdown. 

 

This is the work that has no interest in discussing the minute details of who said what, or obsessing over the smallest details of behaviours đŸ„±


 It’s not about controlling behaviour or pretending to be endlessly calm.
 It’s about peeling back the “shoulds,” shaking out of society’s boxes, and finally understanding what regulation really is — in your body, in your child’s body, in the space between you so that you can break free of the guilt and the feeling that you’re not good enough.

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Inside POP Club, we don’t hand you another parenting hack.

 We hand you tools, support, and a community that lets you:
  • take responsibility for what’s yours (and let go of what’s not),
  • See what’s going on for your child, without making it about you,
  • and parent on purpose, not on autopilot

Because this is not about raising compliant kids.
 It’s about raising emotionally whole humans — while becoming one yourself.

 

This is POP Club.
Not perfect parenting.
Not polite parenting.
Not gentle parenting.
Parenting on purpose.

 

AND THIS IS WHAT I WANT YOU TO BE ABLE TO ACHIEVE

I didn’t dream up the POP Club sitting in an office with a whiteboard.

I built it on the floor of a playroom, sitting with my back to doors with kids who were melting down, hiding under tables, throwing boots at my head
 and sitting across from parents who were in tears because they’d tried all the “consequences” and nothing shifted.

I’ve been doing this for well over a decade as a Master’s-qualified Play Therapist and Psychotherapist, working with hundreds of families just like yours.
 And if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this:

It’s never just about the behaviour you can see.
 It’s about what’s going on in the child’s head, heart and body — and the parent’s too.

Most parenting advice out there?
 It’s either the old-school “be tougher” stuff that shuts kids down,
 or the gentle Instagram scripts that don’t hold up at 7 p.m. when your child’s screaming on the bathroom floor.

The pendulum swings too far in both directions. 

The POP Club came out of the real work I’ve done with families — not just theory.

I know the families who get the best results aren’t the ones who become “perfect parents.”
 They’re the ones who finally understand what’s underneath theirs and their child’s big feelings, and start leading instead of firefighting.

That’s what the POP Club delivers — and that’s what you won’t find anywhere else.

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I’m Sarah
 and I’ve lost count of how many parents have sat across from me, half-laughing, half-crying, saying the exact same things you probably whisper to yourself.

I’ve heard it all:

“If she’d just stay in her bed, we might actually get a night’s sleep.”
 “If he’d just bloody do a poo in the toilet, life would be easier.”
 “If she’d just stop smacking her sister every time she looked at her funny
”

Sound familiar?
 (Yeah, you just muttered “oh God
 that’s us”, didn’t you?)

I’ve seen it over and over again: families come to me convinced that if they could just nail that one behaviour — bedtime, toilet training, the endless tantrums — they’d finally be able to breathe again.

So they’ve tried the sticker charts, the “one more warning”, the firmer consequences, promising themselves they’ll be more consistent this time

 and still they end up in the same battle the next night.

After years of sitting with families — mums in tears in my playroom, dads muttering they’re “done”, parents telling me they’ve yelled, bribed, even threatened and still nothing shifts — I started to see the pattern.

Those battles aren’t the real problem.
 They’re the smoke.
 The real fire is what’s happening underneath — the child’s nervous system running hot, the stress coursing through everyone in the house, and the cycle that keeps everyone on edge.

The day I stopped firefighting the behaviour and started helping parents see what was really going on underneath?
 That’s the day everything started to change.
 And that’s exactly what I bring into the POP Club.

And since shifting focus to what’s really going on:

✹ Parents who thought they were “just too shouty” are stepping in steady — even when their child’s losing it.

✹ Kids who seemed stuck in meltdown-mode are recovering quicker, feeling safer, and no longer ruling the household by alarm bells.

✹ Homes that once felt like a war-zone at 7 p.m. now feel calmer, more predictable
 even (dare I say it) occasionally fun.

And the best bit?

 

 You don’t need to become some Zen-guru parent with infinite patience.
 You just need to stop wrestling with the smoke and learn how to steady the fire underneath.

I’ve seen it happen for so many families — and I believe it can happen for you too, even if right now you feel like every day’s a battle.

P.S. I’ve made the POP Club as low-fuss as possible. You can step in and start shifting things straight away. If it’s not what you need, step back out. No hoops, no drama
 but I reckon once you see what’s really going on, you won’t want to go back to firefighting.

There’s 4 Key ingredients that make the POP- Club a game changer for parents of intense kids, like you:

1. Basecamp

This is where you can start for some quick wins and to come up for air. For 5 days, with 15 minutes I’ll show you 5 things that you can change almost instantly to make a big shift in your mindset and in your child’s behaviour. 

2. The Parenting On Purpose “Beyond Behaviour” Framework

Instead of tinkering with sticker-charts and scratching your noggin trying to remember what was inside the cheat sheet and scripts you downloaded I want you to understand what is at the heart of behaviour so that you can address what actually matters. I want you to be so confident that YOU are the answer that I’ll also help you get honest about the grown-up reactions that keep the cycle spinning.

The new you: knows that YOU the expert of your family, so that you never have to look for the perfect thing to say again. Finally you’ll have the answers even when the wheels fall off at 7pm and everyone’s knackered.

3. Masterclasses + Behaviour Boxes

Because some things deserve their own dedicated corner, there’s in-depth masterclasses and bite-sized behaviour insights (something for everyone) that show you the why behind the behaviour and the how of what it needs— so you grow your own wisdom and can adapt in any situation.

The new you: stops feeling dependent on tips from the internet and starts feeling confident that you know what’s going on and what to do next.

4. The POP Community

The POP Community - not just a dusty collection of videos, but a private community in our private app to celebrate, find solidarity and questions to your most pressing issues

because you can’t rewire old patterns in the same crowd that normalised them.

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Here’s the kind of shift that sneaks up on you inside POP Club 👀

đŸ€Ż From the constant whiplash of googling “is this normal?”, scrolling through conflicting advice, and wondering why none of it seems to work with your kid


đŸ§© To finally seeing the pattern — spotting the stress signals, understanding what’s underneath, and realising, YOU are the answer for your child

😞 From quietly crying in the laundry while the kids argue again, feeling like you’re stuffing down your own emotions because you have to “stay calm” when you’re anything but


đŸ”„ To feeling steady enough to ride the wave safe in your feelings, not perfectly serene, just strong enough to stay in it without exploding or caving in.

đŸ„Ž From saying “I’ve tried everything” (when what you’ve really tried is 15 random Instagram tips)


💡 To actually knowing what works for your child — because you understand the why, not just the what.

And that’s the real transformation.

 

Not a shiny, perfect household but a family that’s finally exhaling.

Less shouting across the hallway.

More soft landings after hard moments.

Less googling.

More “I’ve got this.”

If it sounds pretty damn good, then


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And you don’t need to just take my word for the transformation this can create
 here’s what members have to say:

WHy trust me to guide you through this? 

Hey, I’m Sarah Bolitho — Play Therapist, Psychotherapist, and creator of the POP Club.

For more than a decade I’ve been sitting on the floor (literally) with hundreds of families — kids in tears, parents exhausted, homes stretched thin — helping them find their way back to calm and connection.

And as a mum myself, I get it.
 I’ve done the morning juggle with Weet-Bix on my jumper, the “please just go to sleep” whisper-pleas, and the quiet cry in the laundry. I know what it’s like to love your kid fiercely but also fantasise about running away to a quiet cabin.

That’s why I created the POP Club — not another parenting group full of platitudes and Pinterest-perfect routines, but a space where you can finally understand what’s actually going on beneath your child’s behaviour and feel equipped to handle it.

Because here’s what I know for sure:
 💛 Kids don’t need fixing — and neither do you.
 💛 The behaviour isn’t the problem; it’s the clue.
 💛 You can’t logic a child out of a meltdown — but you can learn how to steady the storm.

So if you’re ready to stop guessing, stop Googling, and start feeling like the calm, confident leader your child needs — I’ve got you.

 

Welcome to the POP Club: where we cut through the noise, keep it real, and actually change the game at home. 💛
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