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Come and join us in the Parenting on Purpose Club AKA The POP Club

 

A space to break through and understand the real reasons you’re struggling with your child’s behaviour so that you can reduce them for good

The POP Club is an app-based community for parents of intense children aged 1-7 ready to ditch quick tricks, go deeper than learning quick scripts so that they can focus on what actually matters.

 You will become the parent that is your child’s answer to aggression, anxiety, tricky behaviours, bedtime battles, toileting challenges, sibling squabbles and so much more. 

No more looking for answers from the next expert because when you have a roadmap to change how you see and be with the behaviours, the behaviours you see change. 

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You’ve tried the tips, the “gentle” scripts, the calm corners, the time-outs, the parenting books are stacked on your nightstand, and yet here you are.
 Still feeling like you’re losing it in the kitchen.
 Still watching your child’s big feelings explode and wondering, “What am I doing wrong?”

 - Still trying to stop siblings fighting, the rude backchat, the aggression, the yelling, the battles and, my gosh, the defiance 👀

 - Still feeling not good enough 😭😭

 - Still feeling like you’re missing something, like you’re less than ‘that mum’ in your group that has the kids who sit and just colour in or chill and do play-doh đŸ€ŻđŸ€ŻÂ Â 

And what does that look like playing out in real life too?


🙃 You might be running yourself ragged trying to “fix” the little flash-points;

- the bedtime circus, the supermarket standoff, the nappy stand-off, the car-seat wrestle, telling yourself, “If we could just get this thing sorted, everything would be fine.”

 

🙃 You might be trapped in the daily loop of nagging, bribing, threatening, then feeling guilty 

— you already know it doesn’t work but in the heat of the moment, you’ve got nothing else to try.

 

🙃 You might be desperate for calmer days and fewer tears (theirs and yours) but so busy firefighting the behaviour 

- you’ve not had chance to step back and see what’s really going on underneath it all.

 It feels so complex and so overwhelming, but here’s what I know
 

You’re not broken.
 You’re not failing.
 

You’re just trying to teach your child something you were never taught: how to actually feel and regulate emotions.

You’re likely focusing on WHAT your kids are doing instead of looking at WHY. 

POP Club exists because this is the work nobody tells you about.

 

This is the work that you cannot hack your way out of. 

This is the work that has no ‘save all script’ that you can use in the next meltdown. 

 

This is the work that has no interest in discussing the minute details of who said what, or obsessing over the smallest details of behaviours đŸ„±


 It’s not about controlling behaviour or pretending to be endlessly calm.
 It’s about peeling back the “shoulds,” shaking out of society’s boxes, and finally understanding what regulation really is — in your body, in your child’s body, in the space between you so that you can break free of the guilt and the feeling that you’re not good enough.

 

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Inside POP Club, we don’t hand you another parenting hack.

 We hand you tools, support, and a community that lets you:
  • take responsibility for what’s yours (and let go of what’s not),
  • See what’s going on for your child, without making it about you,
  • and parent on purpose, not on autopilot

Because this is not about raising compliant kids.
 It’s about raising emotionally whole humans — while becoming one yourself.

 

This is POP Club.
Not perfect parenting.
Not polite parenting.
Not gentle parenting.
Parenting on purpose.

 

AND THIS IS WHAT I WANT YOU TO BE ABLE TO ACHIEVE

I didn’t dream up the POP Club sitting in an office with a whiteboard.

I built it on the floor of a playroom, sitting with my back to doors with kids who were melting down, hiding under tables, throwing boots at my head
 and sitting across from parents who were in tears because they’d tried all the “consequences” and nothing shifted.

I’ve been doing this for well over a decade as a Master’s-qualified Play Therapist and Psychotherapist, working with hundreds of families just like yours.
 And if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s this:

It’s never just about the behaviour you can see.
 It’s about what’s going on in the child’s head, heart and body — and the parent’s too.

Most parenting advice out there?
 It’s either the old-school “be tougher” stuff that shuts kids down,
 or the gentle Instagram scripts that don’t hold up at 7 p.m. when your child’s screaming on the bathroom floor.

The pendulum swings too far in both directions. 

The POP Club came out of the real work I’ve done with families — not just theory.

I know the families who get the best results aren’t the ones who become “perfect parents.”
 They’re the ones who finally understand what’s underneath theirs and their child’s big feelings, and start leading instead of firefighting.

That’s what the POP Club delivers — and that’s what you won’t find anywhere else.

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Who the heck am I to help you?

 I’m Sarah
 and I’ve lost count of how many parents have sat across from me, half-laughing, half-crying, saying the exact same things you probably whisper to yourself.

I’ve heard it all:

“If she’d just stay in her bed, we might actually get a night’s sleep.”
 “If he’d just bloody do a poo in the toilet, life would be easier.”
 “If she’d just stop smacking her sister every time she looked at her funny
”

Sound familiar?
 (Yeah, you just muttered “oh God
 that’s us”, didn’t you?)

I’ve seen it over and over again: families come to me convinced that if they could just nail that one behaviour — bedtime, toilet training, the endless tantrums — they’d finally be able to breathe again.

So they’ve tried the sticker charts, the “one more warning”, the firmer consequences, promising themselves they’ll be more consistent this time

 and still they end up in the same battle the next night.

After years of sitting with families — mums in tears in my playroom, dads muttering they’re “done”, parents telling me they’ve yelled, bribed, even threatened and still nothing shifts — I started to see the pattern.

Those battles aren’t the real problem.
 They’re the smoke.
 The real fire is what’s happening underneath — the child’s nervous system running hot, the stress coursing through everyone in the house, and the cycle that keeps everyone on edge.

The day I stopped firefighting the behaviour and started helping parents see what was really going on underneath?
 That’s the day everything started to change.
 And that’s exactly what I bring into the POP Club.

And since shifting focus to what’s really going on:

✹ Parents who thought they were “just too shouty” are stepping in steady — even when their child’s losing it.

✹ Kids who seemed stuck in meltdown-mode are recovering quicker, feeling safer, and no longer ruling the household by alarm bells.

✹ Homes that once felt like a war-zone at 7 p.m. now feel calmer, more predictable
 even (dare I say it) occasionally fun.

And the best bit?

 

 You don’t need to become some Zen-guru parent with infinite patience.
 You just need to stop wrestling with the smoke and learn how to steady the fire underneath.

I’ve seen it happen for so many families — and I believe it can happen for you too, even if right now you feel like every day’s a battle.

P.S. I’ve made the POP Club as low-fuss as possible. You can step in and start shifting things straight away. If it’s not what you need, step back out. No hoops, no drama
 but I reckon once you see what’s really going on, you won’t want to go back to firefighting.

There’s 4 Key ingredients that make the POP- Club a game changer for parents of intense kids, like you:

1. Basecamp

This is where you can start for some quick wins and to come up for air. For 5 days, with 15 minutes I’ll show you 5 things that you can change almost instantly to make a big shift in your mindset and in your child’s behaviour. 

2. The Parenting On Purpose “Beyond Behaviour” Framework

Instead of tinkering with sticker-charts and scratching your noggin trying to remember what was inside the cheat sheet and scripts you downloaded I want you to understand what is at the heart of behaviour so that you can address what actually matters. I want you to be so confident that YOU are the answer that I’ll also help you get honest about the grown-up reactions that keep the cycle spinning.

The new you: knows that YOU the expert of your family, so that you never have to look for the perfect thing to say again. Finally you’ll have the answers even when the wheels fall off at 7pm and everyone’s knackered.

3. Masterclasses + Behaviour Boxes

Because some things deserve their own dedicated corner, there’s in-depth masterclasses and bite-sized behaviour insights (something for everyone) that show you the why behind the behaviour and the how of what it needs— so you grow your own wisdom and can adapt in any situation.

The new you: stops feeling dependent on tips from the internet and starts feeling confident that you know what’s going on and what to do next.

4. The POP Community

The POP Community - not just a dusty collection of videos, but a private community in our private app to celebrate, find solidarity and questions to your most pressing issues

because you can’t rewire old patterns in the same crowd that normalised them.

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Here’s the kind of shift that sneaks up on you inside POP Club 👀

đŸ€Ż From the constant whiplash of googling “is this normal?”, scrolling through conflicting advice, and wondering why none of it seems to work with your kid


đŸ§© To finally seeing the pattern — spotting the stress signals, understanding what’s underneath, and realising, YOU are the answer for your child

😞 From quietly crying in the laundry while the kids argue again, feeling like you’re stuffing down your own emotions because you have to “stay calm” when you’re anything but


đŸ”„ To feeling steady enough to ride the wave safe in your feelings, not perfectly serene, just strong enough to stay in it without exploding or caving in.

đŸ„Ž From saying “I’ve tried everything” (when what you’ve really tried is 15 random Instagram tips)


💡 To actually knowing what works for your child — because you understand the why, not just the what.

And that’s the real transformation.

 

Not a shiny, perfect household but a family that’s finally exhaling.

Less shouting across the hallway.

More soft landings after hard moments.

Less googling.

More “I’ve got this.”

If it sounds pretty damn good, then


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Bite-sized insights with big impact

A full suite of knowledge, carefully curated just for you. I’ve done the research and turned it into bite-sized chunks so that you can see exactly what’s underneath your child’s behaviour — and discover what will truly make a difference when it comes to responding.

 

Inside the POP Club, you’ll get real-life guidance on: 

- Parenting Foundations 

- The Great Behaviour Reset 

- Rules of Thumb (aka: parenting cheat codes) 

- Understanding Your Own Triggers & Values 

- What Guilt Is Trying to Tell You 

- Regulating Yourself Before Responding 

- Understanding Your Unique Child 

- Why Behaviour Happens (and what it really means) 

- Attachment Needs and How to Meet Them 

- Responding with Connection 

- Helping Kids Process Big Emotions 

- Discipline That’s Kind and Firm 

- Understanding Co-Regulation (and how to do it)

 

This is your go-to space when you want to understand, not just react — and respond in ways that support both your child’s development and your own wellbeing.

Your safe space — right in your pocket  

Parenting young kids can feel really isolating — especially when the advice you’re getting doesn’t quite fit your child or your values. That’s why inside POP Club, you get access to a private, app-based community created just for parents like you!

Download the Kajabi app to your phone or tablet and you’ll have a direct line to support whenever you need it — whether you're mid-tantrum, hiding in the pantry, or celebrating a little win.

In the community, you can:

- ask questions for Sarah and get them answered daily

- join live calls for real-time support

- connect through members-only chat with other parents who truly get it

- feel safe sharing the highs and lows without judgement or pressure

No noisy Facebook groups. No more getting lost in threads that don’t apply to you. Just a calm, encouraging space with real answers, real people, and the kind of support that actually helps — especially on the hard days.

Quick support for tricky behaviours

Bitesized insights for those “what do I do with this?” moments. These short audio and video lessons help you understand the why behind common behaviours and give you simple, calm ways to respond — all in under 10 minutes.

Topics include:

- Aggression, anxiety and defiance

- Bedtime battles and bath refusal

- Complaints of fairness

- Brushing teeth

- Being a baby” behaviours

- Nagging and conflicting demands

- Behaviour foundations and brain-body connection

 

These lessons are designed to give you support in the messy middle — the everyday challenges where Google falls short, and a little POP Club wisdom can go a long way.

Guest expert masterclasses inside POP Club because some topics need a deeper dive

Not everything can be solved in a quick reel or five-minute read — some topics deserve more space, more insight, and a little extra time to really sink in.

That’s why POP Club includes a growing library of expert-led masterclasses — designed to give you deeper support, more clarity, and practical tools you can use right away. 

 

A few of the sessions you’ll have access to include:

- Health & Well-Being with Tara Green (63 mins)

- Speech Development with Alex Trichillo (63 mins) 

- Being Fearless in Parenting with Tracy Gillett (73 mins) 

- Supporting Highly Sensitive Kids with Jacqui Ward (62 mins) 

- Preparing Kids for Medical Experiences with Amanda Zaffino (57 mins) 

- Finding Purpose and Passion with Sarah Cremona (59 mins) 

- Mealtimes Magic with Shelly Judge (33 mins) 

- Shaking the Shoulds in Motherhood with Fiona Weaver (46 mins) 

- Supporting Anxious Kids Through Transitions with Dr. Kathryn Hackman (46 mins) 

- Understanding Resilience in Children with Jess Demetrious (85 mins) 

- The Link Between Oral Function and Sleep with Tash Duffin (65 mins) 

- Iron’s Influence on Sleep and Behaviour with Jessica Donovan (65 mins) 

- Healing Your Inner Child to Be the Parent You Want to Be with Sarah Daley (74 mins)

 

Whether you're looking for insight, reassurance, or real tools that work — these sessions are here to leave you with more awareness, confidence and calm.

GET ALLLLL OF THIS with instant access for only $32 per month!

 

1. The POP Framework for REFLECT, KNOW, RELATE and REGULATE. 
2. Questions from the Clubhouse- a private podcast spotlighting member questions every week
3. Monthly live Q&A sessions, member hot seats for insights on their struggles
4. Masterclasses, workshops and guest hosting for deeper dives on topics impacting you the most

5. PLUS  a BONUS 'Behaviour Box' your go-to behaviour encyclopeadia showing you exactly what those behaviours are about and how to shift them

 

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And you don’t need to just take my word for the transformation this can create
 here’s what members have to say:

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WHy trust me to guide you through this? 

Hey, I’m Sarah Bolitho — Play Therapist, Psychotherapist, and creator of the POP Club.

For more than a decade I’ve been sitting on the floor (literally) with hundreds of families — kids in tears, parents exhausted, homes stretched thin — helping them find their way back to calm and connection.

And as a mum myself, I get it.
 I’ve done the morning juggle with Weet-Bix on my jumper, the “please just go to sleep” whisper-pleas, and the quiet cry in the laundry. I know what it’s like to love your kid fiercely but also fantasise about running away to a quiet cabin.

That’s why I created the POP Club — not another parenting group full of platitudes and Pinterest-perfect routines, but a space where you can finally understand what’s actually going on beneath your child’s behaviour and feel equipped to handle it.

Because here’s what I know for sure:
 💛 Kids don’t need fixing — and neither do you.
 💛 The behaviour isn’t the problem; it’s the clue.
 💛 You can’t logic a child out of a meltdown — but you can learn how to steady the storm.

Do you have questions? Here are some answers!

Ready to feel more confident, supported and calm in your parenting? ✹

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Before you go... a little love note from me to you

If you’ve made it this far, you might still be wondering if POP Club is really what you need.

Maybe you’ve been Googling at 2am (again), second-guessing yourself after a tough day, or just wishing someone would tell you you’re not doing it all wrong.

As a play therapist who’s supported hundreds of parents, I want you to know — you’re not. And you don’t have to figure it all out on your own.

POP Club was made for moments just like that — the messy, real-life parenting stuff no one prepares you for. You’ll get practical tools, grounded advice, and the kind of support that actually helps — without the fluff, guilt or judgement.

If your gut’s whispering “this might be the thing”
 I’d love to welcome you inside.

You’ve got this. And I’ve got you.

Last chance to join the POP Club today 🎉

Get instant access for just $32/month — cancel anytime.

✔ A clear, step-by-step path to Reflect, Know, Connect + Regulate
✔ Monthly live Q&A sessions, hot seats + real-time support from a Registered Play Therapist
✔ Private podcast answering member questions (no scrolling Reddit at midnight)
✔ Masterclasses, expert workshops + the Behaviour Box for practical, bite-sized behaviour support
✔ A toolbox for YOU — to help you stay calm, regulated and ready
✔ A private community that gets it — because parenting intense kids is a whole different ballgame

You don’t need to do it all on your own — POP Club is here to back you every step of the way.

Join now!

So if you’re ready to stop guessing, stop Googling, and start feeling like the calm, confident leader your child needs — I’ve got you.

 

Welcome to the POP Club: where we cut through the noise, keep it real, and actually change the game at home. 💛
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