Bundle:Ā The Magic of Choice-Giving + The Gift of Consequences
You've made an amazing choice! By grabbing both guides together, you now have the complete play therapy toolkit to transform your parenting and build your child's resilience, competency, and self-trust.
Here's what you're getting:
- The Magic of Choice-Giving is your proactive tool. It shows you how to offer bounded choices that build your child's sense of agency, competency, and self-esteem while actually settling their nervous system. You'll get 50 everyday scenarios (from toddlers to preschoolers) ready to use immediately—whether it's getting dressed, leaving the park, or handling transitions. By stepping out of power struggles and into partnership, you'll see cooperation happen naturally.
- The Gift of Consequences is your follow-through. It introduces the profound concept of "Returning Responsibility," teaching you how to step back and let your child experience the natural outcomes of their choices. This is where true resilience and self-trust are built. You'll learn the magic phrase "If you choose... then you choose..." that completely removes your emotional reactivity and puts the responsibility right back where it belongs.
- Together, they create a complete framework: Use Choice-Giving to proactively offer agency in daily routines, then lean on Consequences when tricky moments arise. Both guides shift you from power struggle to partnership, helping your child develop the confidence and capability to navigate the world.